Attraction Tips
Important Attraction and "Game" Field Tips for Picking up Girls
We all want to be successful at making our "target" guy or gal fall for us as soon as possible. Unfortunately these thoughts are nothing more than fantasy for most people. It turns out that there are a few tips you can use to jump-start your game again.
Without further ado here's some important advice:
1. Stick Out
You're ability to differentiate yourself from the rest of the crowd is important. Even some of the most redicious "get-ups" turn eyes and create the attention needed for people to notice and consider you. If everyone is wearing the same outfit try to mix it up as long as its appropriate. One way you could stick out is to wear a really nice hat or perhaps "blingy" jewelery or unique boots. It'll take some time for you to develop your fashion sense to stick out. Your fragrance can also make you stand out clearly.
Another part of sticking out is your positioning. If your at a bar or night club you'll want to avoid the corners of the room and gravitate always towards the action (usually the center of the room). What you do when your positioned is important as well. Don't fiddle. Stay cool.
2. Body Language
Women must take note of their body language when trying to "lure a man into conversation". The way you use your body is an important indicator to a guy that you have room for him in your life. Do this by providing a space around you that is inviting and makes you approachable. If a guy deems it too difficult he may just dismiss you as "fully loaded". Women should also try to play into the guys character. Usually this means being slightly more submissive and passive. Don't play this to the extreme because you can be too passive!
Men should be well aware that dominant body language leads to attraction of women. Men should try to carry their shoulders high and never slouche. Broad shoulders are a subconscious indicator of power and thus dominance. Submissive or "nice guys" must step up there game. The best way to do this is to eliminate any sort of anxiety or body language response. A major turn off for chicks is a guy who does not have confidence in himself. Talk in a deep voice. Change the speed of your speach to be slower in order to seem cool, collective, and wise. Change your speed to a faster pace with more tone to seem more dominant.
3. Consistency
We've gone over some basic tips for body language and sticking out. It's important to understand however that consistency counts for a lot. If your going to be the dominant male you better be good at that role already or else people will read right through your acting. If you come off as extremely serious but try to be funny this could definately be a problem of inconsistency. This is problematic because I might send mixed signals. While my joke may have been in jest and fun she may interpret as insulting and wierd because of my half-assed smirk.
4. Union Of Scent And Body Chemistry
We've already established how its important to display correct body language and to stick out. One of the ways we can do this is find a destinctive pheromone infused cologne or perfume that perfectly matches our body chemistry and "theme" together.
Fragrances act differently to each person based on the consistency of their skin. The only real way to find which Fragrance best matches you you'll most likely want to experiment with several different blends.
The marriage between pheromones and scents is an important one. Pheromones can give you a subconscious reaction to your target. Pheromones linked with the correct smell can signal a confirmation of the subconscious reaction. Be sure to read our page on themes in order to get examples of which themes match with which pheromone blends.
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